Are You Married? Don't You Want Babies?

Can I just go on record and say how freaking tired I am of hearing these two questions? Yes, I know I live in young marriage/baby capital of the U.S.A. but holy freaking shit, I am only 23! Forgive me for not wanting to rush into marriage with someone I barely know, only to have to deal with divorce a few months down the road when they realize what a freaking bitch I can be! It is common for people out here to get married after knowing each other all of five months. I'm sorry, but I think that is crazy! I won't say that I'm against people getting married young, hey, it works out for a lot of people, but Jesus, take some time to get to know each other first. I'm not saying that I'll NEVER get married (though right now that doesn't seem to be such a bad idea... with the exception of a select few all I ever hear is people bitching about their husbands/ wives). Do I want babies? Maybe someday. Right now? No way! Sure I get that itch every time I see/hold a new baby, but as soon as I hear them let out that first wail the feeling is squelched in a heart beat. I have a whole host of nieces and nephews that my brother and sisters are kind enough to let me borrow whenever I want and as cute as they are and as much as I love them, it's nice to be able to give them back and say 'here you go, see ya next week!' Sorry that my biological clock is not jumping up and down in a hissy-fit and I feel no need to drag the nearest unsuspecting sucker to the alter. I'm perfectly happy biding my time for the present. Maybe it will happen, maybe it won't and REALLY, I'm okay with that. So please, enough with the questions.